Confidence vs Arrogance

As teenagers (and tweens), your children will arrogantly believe that what they think to be right, is “the way it is.”  This will be difficult.  Remember they will be adults and the same truths apply to their selfish-pride even now. Also remember, your job is to help them understand the difference between arrogance and confidence.

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HONESTY – It Starts with You

Your integrity, like that of a ship, has a wholeness to it.  If you are dishonest, then your “ship” has a hole in the keel and is taking on water. Your integrity is no longer intact, and while a ship can take on some water and still float it is a practice in futility to continually compromise the integrity of the ship that is keeping you afloat.

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They Don’t Want a Grand Pontificator!

Children are much better at imitating something that they have seen than obeying a rule or spoken command. Not to mention that when you pontificate (lecture… preach… elaborate) on a regular basis, even with a righteous subject matter, your child(ren) will grow dangerously tired of it, and you will begin the descent toward exasperating them all the quicker.

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